I'd like to share one of my favourite videos on workplace bullying.
Australia has a specific definition of workplace bullying - that being repeated, unreasonable behaviour that creates a risk to health and safety. For those of you who like to go directly to the source, you can find that in s.789FD of the Fair Work Act 2009. This should be kept in mind when actioning bullying items in Australia but that aside, there are some very stimulating materials out there when you consider the matter in its broader sense. Some of these are below:
One of the pieces I really enjoyed from the video is when it described key style differences between leaders and bullies. The punchline being, "bullying is not a leadership style, it is the opposite of leadership".
Workplace Leaders
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Workplace Bullies
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· Leaders inspire and build functional
teams.
· They value others, reward competence
and encourage contribution.
· They set good examples, holding
themselves to the same high standards they expect of others.
· They aim for clarity, behave with integrity
and maturity and take responsibility for their mistakes.
· They let others work without
interfering.
· They resolve conflict.
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· Bullies erode and disrupt functional
teams.
· They may use team language but they’re
not team players.
· They devalue others, feel threatened
by competent staff and stifle contribution.
· They set bad examples and exhibit hypocrisy.
· They pollute the workplace by
projecting their own negative stuff onto others, creating confusion and uncertainty.
· They lack integrity and maturity.
· They lie and blame others to disguise
their own failings.
· They focus on petty fault finding.
· They generate conflict and when their bulling is rooted in personality problems, their behaviour is unlikely to
change.
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While we're on the subject of comparisons, I also want to share another piece I found particularly stimulating. Below is a table which explores the difference between Bullying and Harassment which I came across and understand to be the work of Tim Field, an activist in the area.
While I don't necessarily fully agree with all of the points below, such as that it tends to be secret and without witnesses (I have seen examples to the contrary). I think this is a great piece that helps intellectually distinguish two terms that many people use interchangeably without really thinking about it.
Harassment
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Bullying
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Tends to focus on the individual because of what they are eg. Gender,
race etc.
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Anyone will do, especially if the bully feels threatened in some way.
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Harassment is usually linked to sex, race, prejudice and
discrimination etc.
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These things play little part.
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The person being harassed can usually identify it – particularly with
the extent of awareness training conducted in defence.
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The person being bullied may not realise it for weeks or months.
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Most people can recognise harassment.
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Few people recognise bulling.
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Harassment will often reveal itself through the use of recognised
offensive language.
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Workplace bullying tends to fixate on trivial criticism and false
allegations under performance. Swearing may be done in private.
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The harasser often perceives the complainant as vulnerable to
harassment or a challenge.
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The complainant is seen as a threat and that must first be controlled
and subjugated and, if that doesn’t work, eliminated.
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Often harassment is for peer approval, bravado etc.
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Apart from initiations, tends to be secret, behind closed doors and
with no witnesses.
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Harassment takes place both in and out of work.
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Bullying takes place largely at work.
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Harassment is often domination for superiority.
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Bullying is for control of threat (of exposure of inadequacy.)
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The harasser often lacks self discipline.
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The bully is driven by envy (of abilities) and jealousy (of
relationships)
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